The Important Law of Opposites

There is an important Law in the Law of Attraction and it is the Law of Opposites…

  • Without darkness we wouldn’t be able to recognize light…
  • Without sorrow we wouldn’t be able to recognize joy…
  • Without lack we wouldn’t be able to recognize abundance…

I can hear you now, “WAIT Kristen, what are you saying…we need to have lack and sorrow and darkness?”


That isn’t what I’m saying at all…

BUT there is power in the Law of Opposites and once you learn how to harness this power you will magnetize everything you want and a much faster rate.

This is how you harness the Law of Opposites…

When you find yourself focusing on what you don’t want (which, if you are like most people happens more often than not)…


WHAT…am I crazy??

Listen to me here…

If you know exactly what it is that you don’t want…

Get excited because that means you also know EXACTLY what it is that you DO WANT!

Now to fully harness the Law of Opposites, this is the key…

And this works for everything…

  • Attracting money fast
  • Finding your life purpose
  • Making money from your passion
  • Taking inspired action
  • Living a joyous, abundant life


Here’s how you harness the law…

When you catch yourself obsessing on what you don’t want here are the 6 steps you take:

1. Get excited

2. Tell yourself, “I am focussing on what I don’t want and if I didn’t know what I don’t want, I wouldn’t be able to recognize what I do want!”

3. IMMEDIATELY take a few minutes to focus on, picture, write down etc. EXACTLY what it is that you DO WANT. Get into it and especially tap into how having what you do want makes you feel.

4. Ask yourself ‘What one SMALL step can I take right now that will absolutely move me toward what I do want?’ (SMALL STEP!!)


6. Let it go and go on with your day.

Don’t be scared of what you don’t want…instead use it as a tool to get crystal clear on what you do want and start taking inspired action toward it.

This is important!! Go for it!

Go Big!


10 Responses to “The Important Law of Opposites”

  1. jenni eden says:

    these blogs have been great. I feel I am right underneath everything wonderful that I have been attracting my way and can almost feel the down pouring!! I have been working with intention and inspired thought since 2003 but I have made a few mistakes and locked into a few negative prayers and had the wrong energy coming out on top on many occasions but the final tweaks are in place now. So watch this space!! if you hear of an incredibly successful UK artist who creates beautiful work by tapping into the creative energy of the universe…..That’s me!!!

    • LOA says:

      Hi Jenni!

      I’m so excited for you and can’t wait to hear how things go for you!

      I checked out your site and your art is wonderful…thanks for sharing!

      Go Big!

  2. Gerat post Kristen. Contrast is a very important factor in properly using the law of attraction. You must be clear on what you don’t want so that you can decide on what you do want.

    It’s a cause to celebrate when you decide on what you truly want. This is a turning point in your life!

    Thanks for sharing your insight 🙂


    • LOA says:

      Hi Ryan!

      Thanks for your insight and comments, I look forward to hearing more from you in the future!

      Go Big!

  3. Rosemary says:

    These blogs are great and remind me how important my thoughts are to the attainment of what I want. What do I do with the feeling of “overwhelm” that happens when too many blogs, too many programs, too much is happening all at the same time? I feel as though everything I want is right there to be tapped, but I am only one person, and I’m running out of time. Oh, yes, it’s FDW. FDW begone! Thanks for being there.

  4. Hi Kristen! I love your blog posts. I do have a question that is bought about by Rosemary’s post. How DO you deal with the feeling that you are running out of time? It is the main feeling I seem to have, like everything around me is right within my grasp, but I feel like it’s too little to late? Don’t know exactly how to phrase it. I turned 50 this year, might that have something to do with it?
    Thank you for being here & caring about us:>)…Shell

    • Kristen says:

      Hi Shell!

      Yes, it seems that time or rather the lack of time is coming up for many of you…I’m going to devote a few posts to it to help!

      I look forward to hearing more from you…thanks for the great feedback!

      Go Big!

  5. The bad things we attract are actally gold nuggets in disguise. The bad things help us learn.

    I agree totally.

    Things are only bad if we look at them as bad.

  6. Azna Vishwa Dharini says:

    Dear Kristen,
    You share your knowledge, wisdom so generously. This Law of Opposites or Law of Polarity, law of duality, etc. makes so much sense. I love the way you take even complex concepts and make them so clear and understandable to everyone who experiences confusion and lack of clarity when attempting to assimilate the Law of Attraction. You have explained this law better than any other LOA teacher. I love Abraham-Hicks but sometimes I just cannot grasp their explanations of certain aspects of LOA. What you have written, however, makes so much sense. I shall put this into practice immediately. I wish I could afford to hire you as my coach. (Perhaps one day).

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