How can I help you?

5 of the most powerful words!!

What are they again?

Here you go…

‘How can I help you?’

Why am I writing about this?

I’ll tell you…

I had someone post a comment recently and they asked me to come clean on HOW I first went from making $1200/month to $10,000 plus/month…

Great question!

Obviously this is EXACTLY what teach people when I coach them BUT there has to be a concise answer right?  One that doesn’t require coaching and a program and all that jazz…right?


Here it is…

I found people who were influential and successful in the areas I wanted to focus on and I asked them the magic question…

  • ‘How can I help you?’
  • ‘How can I help you solve this problem?’
  • ‘How can I help you take some things off your plate?’
  • ‘How can I help you make this better?’
  • ‘How can I help you, how can I help you, how can I help you?’

It’s simple, but it’s not easy…

Show people how valuable you are and they will happily pay you for that value…


‘How can I help YOU?’

Leave me a comment and let me know how and when and where you are going to start asking this question!

Go Big!


13 Responses to “How can I help you?”

  1. Lola V says:

    This is a “simple” article for a complex question. I would like to know how you can help someone in poverty focus enough to make money (any money) online when they cannot afford to pay for advertising, seo or products worth selling.

    I’ll be waiting,

    Lola V

  2. David says:

    Excellent advice, kind of like pay it forward, by helping others it always opens doors. It is giving that we receive back in abundance. I just can’t seem to find something or someone to give to right now hahahaha.I truly Need a breakthrough. Blessings DJ

    • LOA says:

      Hi David!

      If I walked up to you right now and asked you what you are best at…

      What would you say? We’ll find a way for you to find people that need your solution!

      Go Big!

  3. Bob Crawford says:

    Right now! How can I help you?

    I even had that phrase put on my business cards!

    Thanks for the post, of course some people just want to get from 0 to 1200 a month… 10,000 a month scares them.

    But you are right, the quickest way to get what you want is to help others get what they want.


  4. Kathy says:


    You wrote “How can I help you?”

    I think I understand the law of attraction and then I find myself doing and saying the things that I don’t want. I want to know why I can’t seem to think about what I do want. I know what I want and I did the exercises you suggested but I keep doing and thinking the opposite. Can you help me?

    Thank you,

  5. I already always ask that question and answer it myself with MY best answer.


  6. By the way, I am going to Hawaii for a week, so I won\’t be able to answer emails until the 22nd of September, until then have a good\’n Kristen… Go big!


  7. t. r. says:

    that sounds good, but how can you just go up to a successful person and ask them how you can help? won’t they think you’re nuts or wonder just who this person is? and what if you’re not interested in making money in that way? i design jewelry. i don’t want to help manage other folks’ workload. i want to make my own business a success. though i suppose, helping people stand out by wearing unique jewelry is helping them, somewhat. this is a lot more complicated than i thought. thanks kristen.

    • LOA says:

      Hi there!

      Try not to focus on what you think your solution is…ASK them what they need and find a way to be the solution…at first it may not be with your jewelry, but I promise if that is your passion it will end up there. And remember, you don’t need to approach someone who is at the ultimate success level you desire, you just need to go to someone a few steps further than you are at right now.

      Start associating with people who are at the next level of where you want to be…you’ll be amazed at what you learn and who you become!

      Go Big!

  8. Rosemary says:

    Ah, the magic formula! I certainly respond to those, like you, who offer to help me obtain my goals, solve my problems or otherwise achieve my intentions. Dr. Anthony says to pray (ask for) people who have problems for me to solve. Now, if they would actually pay me, that would be a neat trick. Guess I’ll just have to be more persuasive in showing them that my services are valuable, or I shall have to actually make my services more valuable. Thanks for the reminder.

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