Who are you?

I’ve noticed something from the emails I get every day…

I want to address it here, because even if you haven’t emailed me about this specifically, you may be struggling with this very thing.

So what is it?

Figuring out what you want in ALL areas of your life…

I’ve told you to look at the whole, big, amazing vision of what you desire…

I want to help you get more specific and really fill in that vision…

I assume you want more than just money or a better career or a better relationship or to lose weight etc.

Right?

Good…then do this…

I want you to answer this question with as many answers that come to you (and I’ll give you an example to help you through it):

Who are you?

For every single one of you I can guarantee there is more than one answer…

For instance if you were to ask me the same question, this is how I would answer:

  • I am an adventure seeker
  • I am a coach
  • I am a champion of my loved ones
  • I am an entertainer
  • I am an entrepreneur
  • I am a creator
  • I am a networker
  • I am a marketer

etc. (I left out quite a few but you get the idea).

The point is this…

We are all more than 1 thing…

For each of us there are typically specific areas that we will always want to be attending to and growing and going to the next level in…

Some of these areas are personal like:

  • Your body and health
  • Your spirituality
  • Your relationships
  • Your money and finances
  • Your fun, adventure and relaxation
  • Your creativity
  • Your atmosphere

etc.

Some of these areas are professional like:

  • Your job or business
  • Your business relationships
  • Your business growth
  • Your business finances

etc.

I want to give you a bonus step that will help you create a FULL vision of exactly what you want in ALL of your areas…

  1. Write down all of the areas of your life that are constant areas of attention (separate them into personal and business) you will probably have 5-10 in personal and 5-10 in business.
  2. Decide what your Ultimate Vision is for that area of your life…
  3. Write it down…
  4. Look for any conflicts between areas (that is a BIG reason for blocks to success) and then and ONLY then, put all the pieces together to form a COMPLETE vision.

There is so much power in coming up with your ultimate vision this way…

In my coaching sessions I work with people on this and the results are amazing…so trust me and go for it!

Leave me a comment and let me know who you are!

Go Big!

Kristen


12 Responses to “Who are you?”

  1. Rosemary says:

    What it all boils down to is that I want TIME to do all the things I want to do: Make my business successful, sing in the opera (I’m doing that now with the Nevada Opera Chorus), spend time with my husband, go on a vacation at the beach, spend time with my aging mother, my sister, my brother (who lives in Germany), just walk, exercise, get a massage, clean up my e-mails (there are 197 in my e-mail inbox just here at home), read the books I ordered, just to be. The exercise you suggest is great, but WHO HAS THE TIME?

    Anyway, great blog post. I’ll put it on my “to do” list.

    • Kristen says:

      Hi Rosemary!

      Time is coming up for a lot of people so I’ll be posting about how to make time work for you soon!

      Hi Peter!

      That’s great! I want you to look at your list and notice the difference between the things you said “I am” with “I want”…how can you change everything to be “I am” (here’s a good way to discover that, who do you have to be to have what you want be true?)

      Go Big!
      Kristen

  2. Betty says:

    I see exactly what I am going for. No need to sidetrack myself. I will focus on these areas.
    Thanks
    Betty

    • Kristen says:

      That’s GREAT Betty!

      Let me know how you are doing on your journey!!

      Hi Peter!

      That’s great! I want you to look at your list and notice the difference between the things you said “I am” with “I want”…how can you change everything to be “I am” (here’s a good way to discover that, who do you have to be to have what you want be true?)

      Go Big!
      Kristen

  3. Eke (AK47) says:

    i am a hero of my family
    i am an entrepreneur
    i want to be a coach
    i want to be a speaker
    i want to fight for the less privileged
    i want to govern

    • Kristen says:

      Hi Eke!

      That’s great! You have a similar situation as Peter so I’ll give you the same exercise…

      I want you to look at your list and notice the difference between the things you said “I am” with “I want”…how can you change everything to be “I am” (here’s a good way to discover that, who do you have to be to have what you want be true?)

      Go Big!
      Kristen

  4. Peter says:

    i am a painter
    i am a racer
    i want to let go more
    i am a father
    i am a musician
    i want to live more lightly
    i want to live in France
    i want to challenge others
    i want to let go more

    • Kristen says:

      Hi Peter!

      That’s great! I want you to look at your list and notice the difference between the things you said “I am” with “I want”…how can you change everything to be “I am” (here’s a good way to discover that, who do you have to be to have what you want be true?)

      Go Big!
      Kristen

  5. Maria says:

    I am a Mother.
    I am a Human.
    I am prosperous being.
    I am a creator.
    I am healthy.
    I am curious and adventurous.
    I love Freedom.
    I believe in myself.
    I live as it is my last day on the planet.

  6. Rosemary says:

    I am a Mother
    I am an entrepreneur
    I am a loyal Friend
    I am passionate
    I am fearful
    I want to be a philanthropist
    I want to be financially stable
    I want to be Happy
    I want to be a leader and motivator
    I Want to be healthy

  7. Alex Gabriel Vu says:

    I am what I am, like a door open when it should be opened and closed when it should close. Many of you are wondering, but not surprised, because I know who I am. This honor, I have not honored myself, but to He who knows everything. You will also honor him if you truly know who you are.

    Alex Gabriel V.

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