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Do you see the glass as half empty or half full? That’s the defining question that you hear about optimism. We all know that optimism is essential to manifesting everything you desire, but there is more to optimism than you think.
Optimism isn’t just about a glass being half full or half empty – there is MUCH more to it than that and when you look at optimism differently, everything shifts. I brought Chris Cade in for this week’s magazine issue to help redefine optimism.
I truly believe that in this article is the shift you need in order to feel completely supported and protected by the Universe at all times.
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“When you choose the belief that the Universe
— Kristen Howe
By Chris Cade
Lately I’ve been really interested in looking at the meaning of words in new ways. Words are the primary way we communicate (especially in digital mediums). And they are symbols for what lies in our minds, both consciously and subconsciously.
By redefining words consciously, you can actually begin to rewire your subconscious for your benefit. That’s because as we live more consciously, our subconscious is also affected (whether we’re trying or not).
Today, I’m going to look at “optimism.” In most contexts, we think of optimism as assuming a positive outcome.
The first definition in a dictionary supports this view:
“A tendency to expect the best possible outcome or dwell on the most hopeful aspects of a situation”
In other words, it’s an expectation that the future will be ideal.
What’s missing from this equation though is context. Who exactly decides what is “more ideal” or “best possible outcome” or “hopeful aspects”?
Is it your ego? How does that compare if somebody else’s ego disagrees?
For example, in a tennis match. Both players are optimistic that they will win. Each player has practiced for many years and has a variety of excellent techniques to defeat their opponents.
Yet only one can win. Therefore, we have to ask:
Does optimism serve them both?
Sure they both can expect to win. Sure both can prepare to win. Since only one can win though, this view of optimism is limited.
I’m beginning to wonder about a different way of looking at optimism.
Here are two other definitions of optimism:
“(a) The doctrine that this world is the best of all possible worlds.”
“(b) The belief that the universe is improving and that good will ultimately triumph over evil.”
Regardless of whether we look at it from the perspective of good versus evil, I particularly resonate with these two definitions.
What if instead of viewing the world as inherently good or evil, we viewed it in terms of optimization?
What if instead of asking “Why do bad things happen to good people?” we asked, “How might this experience ~optimize~ for the greatest benefit of the world?”
This perspective makes a lot more sense when we consider the definitions of “optimize:”
“(a) To make as effective, perfect, or useful as possible.”
“(b) to make the best of.”
In this view, it’s no longer about being hopeful or optimistic in the traditional sense. It’s not about thinking positively about our own unique situation.
We’re challenged to ask bigger questions. Questions that go beyond just what our egos want to say about how an “ideal” situation looks.
We can think about optimization in a larger sense. We can consider how our own personal experience might be contributing to a larger whole.
It’s often said “the whole is greater than the sum of its parts.” Thus, if we are all parts of a whole, it stands to reason that our personal “optimizations” are contributing to the whole…
And often in ways we can’t know or comprehend.
Keep on reading to find out how to experience optimism in a new way …
Experiencing Optimism in a NEW Way
When we step the ego aside for a little while, we have an opportunity to experience optimism in this new way. Experiences, however personal they are, however difficult they are, might just be a doorway through which the Universe is optimizing itself.
The interesting thing about optimization is that we can’t know what it looks like. Some might say that an optimized car might go faster in a shorter time period. That is true. However, an optimized car also might use less resources, be lighter, recycle easier, be easier to drive, or just an awesome stereo.
All of those are ways in which optimization for a vehicle could happen. Yet if we only focus on making faster cars, we lose out on the possibility that there’s many ways to optimize a car.
Or maybe, while trying to optimize a car a totally different technology is discovered… perhaps giving rise to a new supercomputer or flying saucer technology.
Take, for example, this story…
Alexander Fleming was a scientific researcher in the early 1900’s that once went on a vacation. After returning, then working, he set aside a stack of bacterial cultures.
When he returned to the laboratory, he discovered that one of those cultures had been contaminated with a fungus. He also noticed that all the bacteria around that fungus had been destroyed.
This was how one of the greatest disease-preventing agents in history was accidentally discovered. It was named “penicillin.”
Sure there are lots of accidental discoveries in the world. It happens all the time. Perhaps that’s because the Universe seems to have an optimizing nature about it.
We don’t always understand what is being optimized. We don’t always know why. But it seems that there’s something about experiences that gives us the opportunity to optimize personally and as a collective.
Similarly, there’s also different ways to optimize your life. You can’t know exactly what “more confidence” will look like in your life. And yet, as you develop your confidence more fully, your life optimizes as a byproduct.
Maybe you engage more socially. Maybe you ask for a raise. Maybe you start a new business. Maybe you challenge your partner to live more fully and lovingly. Or maybe it will lead you to take a risk that leads to a new discovery about yourself.
All we know is that when we view the world through the lens of “optimization,” it creates a land of mysterious and unknown possibilities.
Think about it. Give it a try. See what you discover.
|Quick Tip||Look Who’s Talking…|
|The next time you find yourself wondering ‘why’ something is happening in your life, remember to redefine optimism and ask yourself this power question…“What if this is happening for my highest good?”
And then ask this follow up power question…
“If this IS happening for my highest good, does it make sense for me to relax and let go of my struggle against it?”
When you ask yourself these 2 questions you are instantly reminded of the support and power of the Universe. Remember, you don’t have to know WHY something is happening, you just need to know that you are supported and loved by the Universe.
|“Thanks for your support.
So good to listen to the many great speakers you interview who are helping others to live in authenticity in these very exciting times.”
– Shirley Z.