How to STOP Being a Person that NOTHING Seems to Work For

Welcome back to the current issue of the Law of Attraction Key Newsletter!

Do you find yourself wondering how you can shift from being a person that NOTHING works for to being a person that sees and feels success at every turn? If you answered, “yes” no worries, you can make that transition, and it isn’t as hard as you think it is…

I asked Bob Doyle to write a special article for you today to help you STOP being a person that nothing works for – and I know you are going to love what he has to say!

I share a quick way to change your story in the Quick Tip section of this issue – make sure you check it out.

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“What’s your story? What are you constantly
reporting about your life? If you want to change
what is showing up in your life, I guarantee
you need a new story.”

— Kristen Howe


How to STOP Being a Person that

NOTHING Seems to Work For

By Bob Doyle

Do you ever wonder why great things happen to some people but not to you?

Do you ever read about people who have tried this or that product and had some incredible result, but when you try it, you don’t get the same result?

Have you become a person who NOTHING seems to work for?

Maybe you’ve thought about trying the some new self-improvement package that sounds great,  but you’re just so tired of things not working for you.

Let’s take a look at how you’ve gotten where you are and why these things might happen.

First, at some point, you tried something – either based on a recommendation, a testimonial you read, or some other reason. Basically, you tried it based on someone else’s positive experience.

However, when you tried it, you did not get the same result so you made the assumption that it didn’t work for you. But how true IS this?

Often – VERY often – things work differently for different people, and it’s a mistake to judge your life by comparing it with others. Perhaps you just needed more time. Maybe your circumstances are completely different!

Regardless – you CREATED a Truth for yourself at that time, that truth being “This didn’t work”, although remember, that truth is based only on your surface comparison with someone else…and it really doesn’t have anything to do with you, and what – in the cosmic scheme of things – is best for you.

Those results you read about for that other person are what was right at that time for them, and that doesn’t necessarily mean that NOW is the time for you and that it will happen to you the same way that it happened for them!

From then on, every thing else you try is then compared to that first experience, with the Truth in your mind being “Well, it didn’t work that time…let’s see if THIS works”.

So again you’re comparing…and not really trying anything “purely” and on it’s own merit without preconceived notions or judgements. You are already working against yourself! You may not yet automatically expect failure, but you have it as an option, and perhaps even a probability based on your previous experiences.

Keep on reading to find out how to break out of this pattern…


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The more things you try with this mindset, the more you fortify this mindset – it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy that “Nothing works for me”. Before you know it, that is who you become. The person you are about reaching your specific goals or trying this or that product or technology is “It works for others but never for me.” Once you reach that place, it will most certainly become true for you.

So what do you do? How do you break out of this pattern?

First, acknowledge how you got here…by comparing yourself or your results with other people who are really on a completely different path then you, although they may have been after similar results.

Then create a new idea for yourself – give yourself permission to experience success on your own terms, without judging what happens based on other people or expectations set up by anyone other than yourself.

Once you believe that you deserve to succeed and that you CAN succeed and that you WILL succeed, your life will change. Whatever you try will work for you, because YOU define what “working” is – not somebody else! You set your own timetable, you are relaxed, and non-judgement. Your infinite patience and lack of expectation based externally, will work with you in very powerful ways and you will regain control over your destiny.


Quick Tip Look Who’s Talking…
When I talk about changing your story, sometimes people have resistance because they don’t want to start telling a story they don’t believe. I completely understand that, so here is a great way to get started…

  1. First, you have to identify what your current, limiting, story is. If you don’t know what your current story is, this is how you find out.
  2. What is an area of your life where you are struggling?
  3. What do you tell yourself and other people about that area of your life?

THAT is your current story – and I guarantee it matches the results you keep getting. So, let’s change it and do it in a way that allows you to believe your new story…

Go for the change that feels believable…

Here’s an example – let’s say you’re current story is that you are constantly struggling with money. If you tried to change your story to ‘money flows to me effortlessly’ you probably wouldn’t believe it at first – but, what if you simply changed your story to ‘I choose to see the proof of financial abundance every day.’ – THAT you can believe right now, because you can choose to see proof of financial abundance every day. You can see it everywhere around you, and remember, when you see it around you, that is PROOF that it exists – so even if it isn’t in your life YET, celebrate the proof and it will soon flow to you as well!

Hi, Kristen,

I think your “gobigcoach” is great! It has helped me a lot and keeps me motivated. I have to tell you that my #1 manifestation is “A Painted Lady”. Ever since I can remember I have been so enthralled with them. I have an 1893 house. I retired last year and the $$$$ you have helped me manifest are producing my dream.

One of the important things that keeps me motivated is the cheerleaders that walk by the front of the house every day. My neighbors are FANTASTIC! […]They always say “Hello”, “I love the colors” […] This is “Motivation”! This will help to change the neighborhood! The vibrations of the people who live here and those who pass by. This is why I am here…in this neighborhood. One of the reasons for being here now. 

So, thank you for your tools and motivation. It’s like you are my secret weapon. 




18 Responses to “How to STOP Being a Person that NOTHING Seems to Work For”

  1. Kenneth Kunda says:

    This is very uplifting. It has kicked me right in my shins and I am now so set to take on life with a lot
    of zeal. I am now made inside-out. Thank you very much for this amazing trick.

    Warmest Regards

  2. Paul Danon says:

    Great stuff. What do you do if things are going pretty well – a lot of my bad habits have been banished – and you seek a really challenging but fun lifegoal with which to fill the final 20 years of your life?

    • Kristen says:

      Hi Paul!

      If you have a challenging lifegoal – break it down into levels – that is exactly what my Ready, Aim Success program is about – so if you have that, this is the perfect time to use it, if you don’t have it, it isn’t open for new members currently, but no worries, here’s a tip for you to use now…:)

      The basic concept is to move the target closer by deciding what the next level is (toward your goal) from where you are now…and that becomes your mini goal…

      Let me know how it goes!
      Let me know how it goes

  3. Alan says:

    Hi Kristen,
    I completely agree that your messages to me keep me motivated to move on with my life. Big money is not part of my dream, only inner peace and confidence are on my want list, so your encouraging regular messages have helped me on my journey, with my destination now on the horizon and coming into view.
    Thank you, thank you,

  4. Gerry Heinz says:

    Hi Kristen,
    You where right Bob Doyle is right on target with is explanations. Comparing ourselves to others success is the mistake that stops everything from happening. We are all unique in our own way with ( success, and failures ). Your tip is the start a great shift of your own story. Thank You Kristen and Bob !!

    • Kristen says:

      Hey Gerry!

      Great to see you here (as well as on Facebook) – I’m always happy when I see your name pop up on a comment – you have such a positive energy!


  5. Daramola Babalola says:

    Hi Kristen,
    Thanks for this highly motivational message. I have always been on an illusion that nothing works for me. Now, I am convinced more than ever before that I CAN succeed and I WILL succeed.

    Have a good day.

  6. Micah Smith says:

    Hey Kristen, thank you for your quick tip!!! For some reason, I just never thought of that!!! I choose to see proof of having a lot of money from now on!!! SO simple, I already have everything else and I will see proof of that starting next month. I am close right now, all it is going to take is time on most of them. I can’t wait !!!

  7. DeNece says:

    Great article. I realize that I have been doing this to myself for so long. Quite a shock to see myself in the article-lol.
    Love the article, it gave me an ahha moment!

  8. Carolyn says:

    Hi Kristen,
    I absolutely loved the article by Bob. Thanks so much for sharing it. It’s helped me to have a whole new perspective.

  9. Janice says:

    Hi Kristen!

    Thank you for the encouragement and good vibes you are always sending me.

    This article is a real eye-opener.

    Thanks! You are amazing!

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