Ready AND Willing?

I need to ask you an important question…

And this question could shed some light on the gap between where you are and where you want to be…

Here’s the deal…

I know you are ready for your life to be different…

I know you are ready

to have more money
to lose more weight
to find the love of your life
to experience great success
to fully and completely express yourself creatively

and anything else that you may be looking for…

Now here’s the question that is so important to your success here…

I know you are ready, but are you WILLING to be different?

Because here’s the key…

To have a different life, YOU need to be different…

There isn’t another way…

What you have in your life won’t change unless you change

How you make decisions
How you handle success
How you handle failure and mistakes
How you handle your time
How you set up boundries
How you value yourself
What you consistently focus on
How you translate the things that happen in your life

and on and on and on…

If you are waiting for your life to change from the outside…

You are going to be waiting forever…

So…I’ll ask you again…

Are you WILLING to be different?

Leave me a comment and let me know…

I appreciate you and know you can have everything you desire!

Go Big!

Kristen

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49 Comments

By sandra, June 8, 2010 @ 4:51 pm

i have changed alot over the last year and yes want to b different, ive learned if u always do wat u have always done u will always get wat u have always got!! so change makes the difference!!
By Steve, June 9, 2010 @ 1:54 am

Hi kristen,
Really enjoying your content so far, looking forward to more uplifting and positive insights in the future.
Steve
By sandra, June 9, 2010 @ 4:17 am

I have changed some ways in my life and being different is me as i take the present moment and try to do something diffent at least once through out the day.
By JoAnna Boccard, June 9, 2010 @ 4:20 am

The very best question and blog.

This is so important and I wonder how many people think of asking themselves this question.

I am ready and in the process, but I know that I need this question in my process.

Thank you.
By Raj, June 9, 2010 @ 4:36 am

I know we must be different to get different. But I myself have developed my boundaries. I find myself unable to break the boundaries. I know it is easy but still my boundaries are with me everytime.
By atim, June 9, 2010 @ 4:42 am

Dear Kristen,
Thank you so much for all the materials you have been sending to me. They have helped hugely to change my life and my pecpective about the way i see things generally. Am realy ready and willing to allow and acomodate better changes in my life. Please sent me more materials. Thanx once again
By Amanda J Evans, June 9, 2010 @ 4:42 am

Wow, thanks so much for your blog post. I had never really thought of it like that. Am I willing to change? It really does give a whole new perspective to success and if I really want it. Am I willing to change? Yes I am and now that I know change comes from within it will make the transition all the more easier.
By Kevin Jeeps, June 9, 2010 @ 5:09 am

Hi Kristen,
I know that I need to change my behaviour and I’m taking steps, possibly small ones, to get around this, but my journey has begun. I am receiving help from many sources, you included, and my path to financial freedom, happiness and, most importantly, making my sons proud of me is already being travelled along.
It will take me time – just as it did you. Maybe I might need more time than some, but I’m going to enjoy the journey.
As I reset my goals, I may never reach the end of the journey, but I intend to have a lot of fun along the way and if our paths are ever likely to cross, it would be great to meet you so that I will be able to thank you in person.
Going bigger!
Kevin
By Migen L. Osorio, June 9, 2010 @ 5:18 am

Dear Kristen,
I am at the stage of my life when I am doubling up my stocktaking. You see I am way past middle age and am in fact, at 65, a senior citizen. I feel that I have left for me the grandest times in my life now that I don’t have to worry about what other people think of me but am in fact ready to make a full self-assessment.
I have gotten most of what I want, foremost of which is to have correct thinking, one that is both positive and realistic. I am aware that with my age, many things are beyond me. But I am fully cognizant of the fact that with my wealth of work experience, skills, know-how, knowledge, information, capacities, abilities, creativity, imagination, and so forth, only the best is yet to come for me.
I have learned to live in the here and the now. I have learned to accept myself for what I am. Before I was afraid of satisfaction, thinking that this would make me be demotivated.
Now, I have discovered that satisfaction promotes confidence which is a vital touchstone to success.
I should be happy with myself. I entered so many fields or areas of interests and romped away with expertise in as many fields. I had always wanted to be able to talk with clarity and knowledgeability in many things and I find that given my work experience I really can.
My favorite quote is from Norman Vincent Peale himself who in a reply to my letter said, “You are a person who achieves victory after victory.”
I had my ups and downs. Each time I reached rock bottom, I had nowhere to go but up. I got to be what I most wanted to be: a writer, painter, and social psychologist. As a writer I wear many hats: I am a freelance writer, a business writer, a copywriter, a public relations writer, a poet, essayist, novelist, and a short story writer.
I am ready to Go Big. Just receiving your emails to me has helped me focus on my desire to Go Big which you instigated. I hope that in a year or two, I really will Go Big in the direction that is positive and life-changing (for the better). Thank you for your emails. Simply reading them make me feel that indeed I can Go Big.
Truly yours,
Migen L. Osorio
By booran, June 9, 2010 @ 5:18 am

yes i am ready and willing to be different
By Michael Kincannon, June 9, 2010 @ 5:18 am

I truly am willing to be different.
By joe, June 9, 2010 @ 5:50 am

Well to be honest I have always been different LOL!But I am just about willing to be anything to become super successful!As long as it does not intale vhurting anyone or anything.
By Vanessa Smith, June 9, 2010 @ 5:51 am

Hi Kristen

First I must thank you for all the information that I have been getting regarding the Law of Attraction and then I want to add that I\’m not happy with the way my finances are going at the moment and I need or shall I say want to change it but I need help in that regard and if it means that I need to change and step out of my comfort zone so be it!
By Ofelia, June 9, 2010 @ 5:57 am

Dear Kristen,
It’s my pleasure recieving valued emails from you.Actually, I feel shy already for spending your time with me. I’m so grateful for your effort in sending me some information on how to improve and change my life. Thank you so much Kristen. All your emails serves as an inspiration to me and I found out I got strong hope for my future. But I have to be patient to wait when it comes.
I want to be true to you,sometimes I feel disapointed of myself.I questioned myself, How can I change my life to my dream life? Kristen, to be honest to you, I’m only a housekeeper working here in Taiwan, with my kind of job, what are the possibilities to increase my income? You know, I just wait for the free ebook emailed to me. I don’t have any credit card to purchase online products.
Of course, anyone wants to be different, I want to change my life as soon as possible.I now confident with my core belief, I can make it and I need your help in whatever way you can do for me. Thank you so much Kristen.
By Peter Chabanowich, June 9, 2010 @ 6:29 am

It is no accident that your information reached me now. Having made the commitment toward changes in my life and having embraced a wealth of support and information nurturing this endeavor, I am all ears! Thank you for your gifts!

Sincerely, Peter
By alejandra, June 9, 2010 @ 6:31 am

Now I know I am ready for change. I am imagining the person I want to become, based on what I feel passionate about. I am working hard on all the fronts you mention: time, success, value… Thank you Kristen. I appreciate you too.
By Mark, June 9, 2010 @ 6:43 am

The transition has already started….changes are beginning to happen already…thanks for the jumpstart….
By Marcus, June 9, 2010 @ 6:47 am

I agree that success is dependant upon how I value my time, make decisions, etc. Thanks for your insight.
By Kathy, June 9, 2010 @ 7:03 am

Thank you so much for your support, it has been so great. You remind me that I am the creator of my life and if it is not working for me then it is time to do something different to manifest what I am ready to receive. Yes, I am ready to be different.
By Jake, June 9, 2010 @ 7:41 am

The will is there (I’ve done it before), so I know there is a way…just having trouble making the changes stick. I may be trying to change too much at one time; looking for that quick fix, so to speak.
By Mark, June 9, 2010 @ 8:16 am

Kristen,
Change is the ultimate goal. I myself am looking for change. I have for the past 2 years while trying to my businesses going. I have also accepted the fact that I couldn’t control the roadblocks that came with this. Because it has taken so long I now have to tie up the loose ends to start generating income to pay what I have created. Although it is not an easy task I am determined to move forward and if it doesn’t workout stand true and go down with my ship.
Mark
By Susan, June 9, 2010 @ 8:41 am

I’ve been working to make my life different. I’ve lost weight so I can be healthier. I’ve read and considered other changes. Some I’ve made and other’s I’m in the process of making. Still others have been rejected as something that doesn’t feel right for me or something I really don’t want to do. Insanity is still doing the same thing and expecting different results so I work to change. Right now I’m working on ways to make my depression better. That’s a slow process because I can’t aford the meds that would maybe help. Remember what you made at your lowest point? I’m there now but without the credit cards. I’m working on ways to make more money now. I will find a way and I will make my life what I want it to be.
By Leila, June 9, 2010 @ 9:15 am

Hi Kristen, I know my life will only change when I change from the inside. In every way I need to change to achieve the things I have yet to achieve I am willing to change.
By Fatimah-Zahrah, June 9, 2010 @ 9:19 am

YES,Iam willing!
By jaikrishin, June 9, 2010 @ 9:29 am

dear kristen.
i am trying to change my life and i have read so many things about the law of atraction etc, and now i am aware that changes will come to my life if i take new steps, but the thing is that i am trying to my best to give a new step but it seems that some thing is blocking me and i am unable to do that,i keep telling myself that to have a new life i have to do new things, believe in myself and thing that anything is possible, but still i feel as some thing is holding me back, well i have read many of yours article and i know you can help me with some advice that will break of the ties i have,so please leave me your comments. thanks.
jaikrishin.
By Sophia, June 9, 2010 @ 9:33 am

Absolutely – YES, I AM WILLING! Just what I needed to hear today because I recognize through your Q that a shift has occurred.

In the last two days I have become SO CONSUMED WITH MY SOUL’S PURPOSE that it is a challenge to focus on anything else. And the key for me is balancing it out – the daily activities that support my Purpose alongside the Reason for doing any of them.

“Willingness” did not show up overnight – and I still grapple with Her frequently. However, I see my progress – small as I think it is at the time – and later I realize it all adds up to something Greater Momentum. However my mind may not trust, my Spirit keeps going. It is the act of getting back up. It is the act of riding the waves. NO MATTER WHAT. WHATEVER IT TAKES.

I know I want to be ALL THAT I AM – THE BIGGEST VERSION OF MYSELF THAT IS IN MY POWER TO CREATE. I WILL HAVE THAT. I AM BECOMING THAT.

Thank you so much, Kristen, for your caring words each day – I feel you near. I have downloaded your Free Report and it is one of my action steps to complete it in order to get that much closer to my Dream of THE BIG LIFE! The road may be long and, at times, arduous, however I will walk it. I hope to be a model for others, to inspire others and to lead them into THE BIG LIFE, also.
By Nik, June 9, 2010 @ 10:57 am

Ofcourse!!
By JoAnna Boccard, June 9, 2010 @ 1:38 pm

Hi Kristen,

Believe it or not, but by starting this morning I began to change my life. I began to make my life different and it is now different.

I, up to this point, really did not like my job or my boss. This morning I did decide to be different. I decided to like my job and my boss and do whatever was necessary to make my job a good place for me. Almost immediately working was pleasant, my boss bought me a coffee and I took a break with her so that she could have a cigarette. I told her I would pay her back for the coffee and she said no, take a dance class with the money. She is also giving me a few more hours.

Thank you for sending this to me this morning.

You see, eventually I will be changing my career, but my intuition told me this morning, for me to quit this job and be happy as a writer I must love and be happy doing what I am doing at this job. Then I will be able to change my life.

Awesome! Thank you.
By Kristen, June 9, 2010 @ 2:08 pm

Hi JoAnna!

You are so right that you have to be happy with where you are to be able to move forward and change your life!

Go Big!
Kristen
By Kristen, June 9, 2010 @ 2:08 pm

Hi Sophia!

I am so excited to be along for the ride on your GO BIG journey!

Go Big!
Kristen
By Kristen, June 9, 2010 @ 2:10 pm

Hi there!

When you feel like something is holding you back from taking a step, try to break it down to an even smaller step…

Your life will change if you take one SMALL step at a time — small steps are the way to GO BIG!

Go Big!
Kristen
By Kristen, June 9, 2010 @ 2:10 pm

Hi Susan!

1 small step at a time and you will get there!

I know you can do this!

Go Big!
Kristen
By Kristen, June 9, 2010 @ 2:11 pm

Great Mark!

And remember to constantly remind yourself WHY you want the changes you want…when you connect to the power of your emotions, amazing things happen!

Go Big!
Kristen
By Kristen, June 9, 2010 @ 2:13 pm

Hi Jake!

One of the most powerful things that I work on with my VIP Group is defining the Next Level…if you find you are trying to change too much too fast, just ask yourself what the next level toward your ultimate picture is…

Go Big!
Kristen
By Kristen, June 9, 2010 @ 2:13 pm

Hi Kathy!

Good for you!

Go Big!
Kristen
By Kristen, June 9, 2010 @ 2:14 pm

Hi Marcus!

You are SO welcome!

Go Big!
Kristen
By Kristen, June 9, 2010 @ 2:14 pm

Hi Mark!

That’s what I’m here for!

Go Big!
Kristen
By Kristen, June 9, 2010 @ 2:15 pm

Great Peter!

I’m excited to hear more about your journey!

Go Big!
Kristen
By Kristen, June 9, 2010 @ 2:16 pm

Hi Ofelia!

It is my pleasure to have you in the Go Big world!

Start changing with the small steps…as I said before, it is the small steps that lead to you going BIG!

Go Big!
Kristen
By Kristen, June 9, 2010 @ 2:17 pm

Hey Joe!

As always it’s great to hear from you!

1 step at a time my friend!

Go Big!
Kristen
By Kristen, June 9, 2010 @ 2:17 pm

Hi Michael!

I believe that you are!

Go Big!
Kristen
By Kristen, June 9, 2010 @ 2:19 pm

Hi Migen!

I am thrilled that you are getting so much from my emails and blog — please stay in touch and let me know how you are progressing!

Go Big!
Kristen
By kitty, June 9, 2010 @ 6:14 pm

Hi Kristen,

Love your articles. Yes Im ready to be different. I know I am the creator of my life. There is so much I would like to do in this life time.
I am ready to expand my consiousness and unfold my potential.
By Alemayehu, June 10, 2010 @ 12:00 am

Hi Kristen, first of all i want to thanks you from my heart for the valuable and posetive insights u had shared me, frankly speaking i want to be different, the problem is the place where i live is does not permit me to have what i need, u know i strongly bleive that my destiny is entirely bound with the country destiny,my root is burried in Ethiopia where it is difficult to have what you want and to be what you wish, any way i donot give up, i would be an overcomer, sorry for my poor lanquage, alemayehu
By Bernard Couzens, June 10, 2010 @ 12:50 am

Hi Kristen
In my life I have found
I do not want to come across as too enthusiastic about this BUT if you want change then change (if you keep doing the same as you have always done, you will keep getting the same results). Just start by taking one positive action forward moving step, one step at a time to completion (there is no magic wand). So yes! I clearly agree with you Kristen.

Bernard (Australia)
By Babalwa, June 10, 2010 @ 1:09 am

More than willing….
By Agathe Malzaire, June 10, 2010 @ 4:18 pm

Hi Kirstin, I am willing to be different but I already know that I am different but not in the way you are thinking. I am ready to be different inside and out , I am ready for enlightment which I do not think you provide.
but I have to say that I need helpand lots or them. agathe
By Hortensia, June 13, 2010 @ 1:08 pm

Hi Kristen,
Just wanted to say that your information has been very valuable to me. And yes, change is the key! Like Albert Einstein said, ” We cant solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them!” I am feeling great, truly in the right direction and very grateful for it. Thanks once again for your inspirational words and concepts!