4 Destructive Habits of People Who Continue To Fail At Everything They Do
By Dr. Robert Anthony
Destructive Habit #1 – They Give Up Easily
Successful people treat failures as stepping stones to success. Those who seldom succeed usually call it quits upon recognizing the first signs of failure. At first, they may be excited to start an endeavor. But then they lose interest fairly quickly, especially when they encounter problems. Then they go and search for a new goal, business, career or relationship and get the same results. People who consistently fail don’t have the persistence to work though their problems and obstacles to fulfill their dreams.
Destructive Habit #2 – They Try to Bring Others Down To Their Level
People who consistently fail envy other successful individuals. Instead of working hard to be like them, they spread rumors and try every dirty trick to bring them down. They could have asked these successful people for help to succeed, but no, they’re too proud. They don’t want to ask advice. Moreover, they’re too negative to accomplish anything.
Destructive Habit #3 – They Waste Their Time
They don’t know what to do next. They may just be contented on eating, getting drunk, watching TV, or worse, staring at the blank wall with no thoughts whatsoever to improve their lives. It’s perfectly fine to enjoy once in a while. But time should be managed efficiently in order to succeed. There should be a proper balance between doing nothing and doing something that will bring us closer to our goals, dreams and desires.
Destructive Habit #4 – They Take the Easy Way Out
If there are two roads to choose from, people who consistently fail in everything they do would choose the wider road with less rewards than the narrower road with much better rewards at the end.
They avoid anything that may cause temporary hardship. They want an easy life. What these people don’t know is that what you reap is what you sow. Efforts and action will not go unnoticed. If only they would be willing to sacrifice a little, they would gain a lot more. Successful people reach their goals, dreams and desires through trials and error. They never give up. They do what it takes to create what they desire.
What is the solution to these 4 Destructive Habits? Easy! Just do the reverse. Success is not difficult. All it really takes to succeed is to discover what people that are consistent failures do – and then just do the opposite. You are virtually guaranteed to succeed!
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When you are experiencing “Habits of Failure” there are 3 things you MUST do to transform them into “Habits of Success”…
- Stop Judging: Judging yourself for experiencing a Habit of Failure will ONLY result in keeping you stuck there, so the very first thing you need to do is acknowledge it and then say this…“I see that I am currently experiencing [Habit of Failure] I acknowledge it and I let it go.”
- Be Willing to Flip the Coin: Most people think that when they have a bad habit they have to get rid of it – that path will only leave you struggling and frustrated. Here’s why…Habits are like sides of a coin – on one side of the coin is the Negative Habit and on the other side is the Positive Habit. The second you shift from trying to get rid of a habit and instead focus on “flipping the coin” things get SO much easier for you.
- Power Question Time: Now that you know you are experiencing a negative habit and that the opposite, positive habit is on the other side of the coin, ask yourself this power question…“What is 1 small thing I can do right now – in 15 minutes or less – that is in alignment with the Success Habit of [Name of the Success Habit that is the opposite of the Failure Habit you are currently experiencing]?”And then – GO DO IT! The momentum you will gain in 15 minutes or less will amaze you!