Responsibility -vs- Blame…

I want to get clear on something VERY important and it can’t wait…

Here it is…

There is a HUGE difference between Responsibility and Blame!

I repeat…

Responsibility is NOT the same as Blame!

So many people get stuck on this…

In my Go Big VIP Program I am constantly asking everyone to take responsibility for their lives…

And I have to remind them that taking responsibility doesn’t mean they should blame themselves.

Here’s the deal…

Your life is a reflection of your true beliefs (in fact, if you want to know what you really believe, look at what your life is like and you’ll see…)

You can change your beliefs — which means you can change your life…

BUT ONLY when you claim responsibility.

Taking responsibility for creating your current circumstances is empowering because in claiming that you created your current reality, you are acknowledging that you can create a different reality…

BUT…

If you BLAME yourself for your current circumstances — you will only get stuck…

Do you see the difference between responsibility and blame?

It is a fine line — so beware how you walk it –

• Empower yourself!
• Claim responsibility!
• Realize that you are so powerful that you have created your current reality
• Congratulate yourself for being so powerful and take a good look at where you want to create a NEW reality
• LEAVE BLAME BEHIND…

That is how you free yourself from being stuck…

This works for everything:

• Money
• Work
• Relationships
• Health
• etc.

Leave me a comment and let me know where you can claim responsibility and let go of blame!

Go Big!

Kristen

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You could give up or you could get _______ …

I know you have things that you want to have happen in your life…

You are focusing on them, visualizing, getting specific and taking inspired action –

You’re doing everything we’ve talked about here…

BUT..

Often you still find yourself waiting for someone else or sidetracked by unforeseeable circumstances or pressed for someone else’s deadline…

So what now?

I constantly talk about how we are 100% responsible for our lives and the story that plays out in our lives and yet…

How can that be true when you are subjected to other people and situations and expectations?

I’ll tell you how…

• You can ALWAYS be creative…
• You can ALWAYS take another path…
• You ALWAYS have a choice…

This is one of those posts that will make some people really angry — and if you aren’t ready to accept this as true, I’m sorry…but I’m not going to change my tune…

Here’s the deal –

When you are waiting or feel like whatever you want to happen relies on someone else, you feel a loss of power…

When you look at the situation and acknowledge that the one path you are looking at is delayed and then ask yourself what different action you can take to find a different path or opportunity etc. THEN you activate your power — you activate your creative juices — you activate Inspired Action…

So here’s my question for you today…

And keep in mind this applies to EVERY AREA of your life…

• Money
• Business
• Relationships
• Fun
• Health

EVERYTHING…

Ask yourself this…

What is something in your life that is ‘held up’ or seems to be reliant on someone else and how can you get creative and look for another possiible path to bring you the same (or better result)?

Leave me a comment with your answer…

Also, let me know if you are ready to be creative and stop waiting for other people to make things happen in your life…

Go Big!

Kristen

What are you waiting for?

I’m all fired up right now!

I’ve been getting tons of comments to my different posts and that’s AWESOME!

BUT…

About 1 out of every 4 comments gets me all riled up…

Why?

I’ll tell you why…

Too many people are wasting their energy on what everyone else is doing…

I’ve literally received a bunch of emails saying pretty much the same thing which is essentially this:

“Why should I live at 100% when nobody else does?”

I’ll tell you why…

BECAUSE IT’S YOUR LIFE!

Stop waiting for someone else or something else to change before you change…

If you do that, you’re going to have a life full of waiting…

This isn’t about anyone else…

This isn’t about the people who don’t care and don’t respect other people and don’t live anywhere near 100%.  This isn’t about the government or what your parents didn’t do for you or who let you down.

This isn’t about anyone else…

It’s about you!

One of the most powerful quotes is “Be the change you want to see in the world.”

This applies to everything!

If you want your relationships to change…

Change who YOU are in the relationship.

If you want your money situation to change…

Change how YOU think about money.

If you want your health to change…

Change how YOU deal with your health.

If you want your LIFE to change…

Change how YOU live your life.

You are the creator of your world…that’s it.

There are always going to be less than desireable people, situations and events in your life…

But here’s the exciting part…

You can control how YOU react to these people, situations and events…

Get over it, stop waiting and stop giving your power away…

You can live an extraordinary life and you can start living it RIGHT THIS SECOND but you have to claim it…you have to decide that you are extraordinary no matter what other people are doing or believe.

You are extraordinary!

You were born that way…

1 step at a time is all it takes and the first step is to CLAIM it and decide that in this moment your life is yours and you decide what to do with it and how to act and react NO MATTER WHAT IS THROWN AT YOU!

You are extraordinary…

Are you ready to claim it?

This might make you uncomfortable…

Some of you may be so uncomfortable you choose to stop coming here…

Some of you may be so uncomfortable that you comment or email me with 1 more attempt to give power to anyone other than yourself…1 more email of “But the government” or “But everyone else” or “But my job” or “But my finances”…

Stop looking for buts…you will always be able to find them and as long as you do you will stay stuck EXACTLY where you are…

Sorry it’s harsh…but it’s true!

I promise you that no matter how terrible your situation is…

There is at least 1 person who has triumphed over worse…

I’m not minimizing your pain or the fact that there are some careless people in this world or that the economy is tough right now…you have right to all of that…but it’s not helping you anymore.

Stop clinging to it…

It’s no longer an option to define your world by anything outside of yourself…

Leave me a comment right now and tell me if you are ready to let go of what everyone else seems to be doing and claim your life…

Tell me EXACTLY what you are ready to let go of so you can step into your extraordinary self…

Do it now…your life can’t wait any longer!

Go Big!

Kristen

I Challenge you…

I have a challenge for you this weekend!

Here’s the deal…

I want you to live and extraordinary life!

• This isn’t just about money
• This isn’t just about love
• This isn’t just about health
• This isn’t just about purpose
• This isn’t just about fun
• This isn’t just about spirituality
• This isn’t just about Joy and Relationships and Creativity…

This is about your COMPLETE LIFE!

There are too many people wandering around, settling for mediocre, accepting a version of themselves that is less than what they want and can be, do and have!

So I have a challenge for you…

And it’s not going to be what you’d think…

• I’m not going to ask you how you can move forward toward your goals this weekend…
• I’m not going to try to inspire you to believe you can be, do and have all that you desire…
• I’m not going to give you tough love and ask you to claim responsibility for everything that happens to you from this moment forward…
• I’m just going to ask you to do 1 thing and this 1 thing will be the start of greatness…

What is it then?

I’ll tell you…

I challenge you to do 1 thing for yourself this weekend!

Just decide to do 1 thing…

Take 1 moment to appreciate yourself in some way…

I PROMISE you it will be harder than you think…

I PROMISE you that this is the start to your extraordinary life!

When you appreciate yourself — you appreciate other people more

When you give to yourself — you have more to give

When you love yourself — you become boundless love

Leave me a comment and let me know what you are going to do for yourself…

Don’t wait…don’t hope that you’ll do this…commit now!

Accountability is the sure fire way to turbo charge your results and I will hold you accountable to this…

Your life depends on it!

Go Big!

Kristen