How do I let go?

Here’s the question I get over and over and over again…

“How do I let go?”

I’m not gonna lie…

That’s the hardest part about the Law of Attraction.

I mean c’mon, I have you jumping through hoops deciding what you really want, visualizing it in GREAT detail, using all of your senses…

By the time you are done with the exercises I put you through you are probably so excited about the life you have decided to create that you can almost taste it…

And then I tell you to ‘Let go’!

What am I crazy?

I know it seems almost impossible…

BUT I need you to do it…

• When I say ‘Let go’ I don’t mean for you to let go of the vision (In fact I want you revisiting that daily for a few minutes)…
• When I say ‘Let go’ I don’t mean for you to let go of the passion and excitement…
• When I say ‘Let go’ I mean ‘Let go of HOW it is going to come to you!’

STOP trying to figure it out (seems nearly impossible doesn’t it?)

So let me be more specific…

Let go of the How!

Focus on the ultimate vision every day…

Use all your senses…

Get excited…

and then LET GO of HOW it’s going to happen!

Yes it’s hard…

BUT I guarantee you that YOU will only LIMIT yourself if you impose what you think can happen and bring you what you want.

Get out of the way…

Decide that what you desire or even something better is on it’s way (actually it’s already here, but that’s for another time) and then let it go…

Stop thinking about it…

Once you do your daily focus…STOP THINKING ABOUT IT!

How many times have you wanted something…

• Money
• Relationship
• Job
• ANYTHING

And you’ve obsessed on it…wondered how you were going to do it and then finally gave up…

And then almost immediately after that it shows up? And in a way you never expected?

Leave me a comment and tell me when this has happened to you…even if it was small, I guarantee it has happened!

Go Big!

Kristen

What are your REAL expectations?

I can’t tell you how many emails I get on a daily basis from people wondering why they keep attracting the things they don’t want.

OR

Emails asking why they feel like something is off or wrong when they do get the things they want.

My answer is always the same and is ALWAYS in the form of a question…

What are your REAL expectations?

Seriously…

I know I tell you to get clear on what you want…

BUT what do you really expect?

Most people go through all the law of attraction steps that involve deciding what you do want and visualizing it in great detail etc. BUT if they don’t go through the process of clearing what they REALLY expect to happen then they find they are stuck.

OR

They attract what they want but because their real expectation is that to get what they want their life has to be full of stress…

So it’s time for a reality check…

What are your REAL expectations?

What do you REALLY believe is going to happen?

You can change your real expectations, but FIRST you have to get real about them…

Once you see what your real expectations are, I want you to look at what you want and then write down what your REAL expectations would have to be to get what you want…

Now that’s what I want you to focus on…

What do I have to believe to have the life I desire?

Leave me a comment and let me know what your REAL expectations are AND what they need to be…

Together we’ll bridge the gap between the two!

Go Big!

Kristen

Nothing New Here…

This morning I signed onto my computer and went through my emails…

A whole bunch of new subscribers to my ‘Law of Attraction Key Report’ — GREAT!

About 30 emails from subscribers asking for advice on how to make the Law of Attraction work — GREAT!

1 Unsubscribe with a comment that said this –

“I’m unsubscribing because this is the same stuff and there is absolutely nothing new here!”

THAT is why I’m writing this post…

Do you want the truth?

She (the subscriber who unsubscribed and wrote this message) was right!

WHAT?  Aren’t I supposed to pretend that what I have to say is new and different and the secret to all of your dreams coming true?

Here’s the deal…

I searched for years to find what would work for me and I listened to 8 million people say the same thing about the law of attraction and making money and living your purpose etc. etc. etc. and they were all giving me the same basic ideas.

The concepts and ideas aren’t different and new…

What is different and new is HOW someone says it…

Like I said, my search was far and wide…

And when I finally broke through and went from making $1200/month to over $10,000/month it wasn’t because I found someone who told me something I hadn’t heard a million times…

I broke through because I found several people who, in their delivery of the information, MADE SENSE TO ME and because it made sense and resonated with me, I was FINALLY INSPIRED TO TAKE ACTION!

So here is my advice for you…

• STOP your quest for the magic bullet –
• STOP looking for the new thing that is going to make all of your dreams come true –
• STOP thinking that there is something you haven’t heard yet that is the key –

There’s nothing NEW here…

There’s nothing new anywhere, Napolean Hill and Tony Robbins and Joe Vitale and Dr. Robert Anthony and Stuart Lichtman and everyone else including me…they are saying the same things and shedding light on them in their own different and very unique and powerful ways…

The key is that how I say it is unique to me and that may be right for you and it may not…

Change your quest, stop looking for new information and start seeking the voices that make it resonate emotionally and not just rationally.

Listen to the voices that speak to you so clearly that you are finally inspired to take action.

You know this stuff, I promise you that.

Find the right teachers, coaches, voices for YOU…

THEN, realize they can’t take action for you…

AND TAKE INSPIRED ACTION…

If how I put things speaks to you, I am THRILLED to be able to help you on your journey and look forward to being part of your path.

Leave me a comment just because…

Go Big!

Kristen

Business and the Law of Attraction

There seems to be a great misconception out there that the Law of Attraction is this big ‘woo woo’ way of thinking that has to do with attracting everything you want to you and yet it doesn’t have practical application when it comes to business.

This couldn’t be further from the truth…

When I talk about attracting more money I certainly don’t mean for you to sit in a room and focus on all of the money you want and then wait for the doorbell to ring with money on the other side…

That’s ridiculous! You have to take Inspired Action, but PLEASE make sure it is INSPIRED Action or you’ll spend a lot of time running around in circles (trust me, I know, I’ve been there).

Listen, I say it over and over again…

The Law of Attraction is always working, it’s just a matter of if it’s working for you or against you and this applies to everything…

• Business
• Money
• Relationships
• Health
• Weight Loss
• Finding and Living  Your Purposeetc.

You get what you spend the majority of your time focussing on (and most of us think we are focussing on what we want but are reeally focussing on what we don’t want, but that’s for another conversation…)

So, does the Law of Attraction apply to business?

YES! A million times YES!

This is what you need to do:

1. Take a good look at your business and decide the ultimate vision of what you want
2. Remove any blocks you have to believing what you want is possible
3. Decide what your FIRST STEP is (check out this post to help with this)
4. Take the first step (otherwise known as INSPIRED ACTION)
5. Let it go and trust

The steps are the same…

I suggest you go through the steps in my report specifically for your business or career, many of my students have done that and reported great results! Chances are good you subscribed for the report and downloaded it already…if not, click here to get it.

As I said, the Law of Attraction applies to EVERY AREA of your life!  Get in there and get it working for you in your business and everywhere else!

Leave me a comment and let me know how you can start to use the Law of Attraction specifically with your business or career!

Go Big!

Kristen

The Important Law of Opposites

There is an important Law in the Law of Attraction and it is the Law of Opposites…

• Without darkness we wouldn’t be able to recognize light…
• Without sorrow we wouldn’t be able to recognize joy…
• Without lack we wouldn’t be able to recognize abundance…

I can hear you now, “WAIT Kristen, what are you saying…we need to have lack and sorrow and darkness?”

NO!

That isn’t what I’m saying at all…

BUT there is power in the Law of Opposites and once you learn how to harness this power you will magnetize everything you want and a much faster rate.

This is how you harness the Law of Opposites…

When you find yourself focusing on what you don’t want (which, if you are like most people happens more often than not)…

GET EXCITED!

WHAT…am I crazy??

Listen to me here…

If you know exactly what it is that you don’t want…

Get excited because that means you also know EXACTLY what it is that you DO WANT!

Now to fully harness the Law of Opposites, this is the key…

And this works for everything…

• Attracting money fast
• Finding your life purpose
• Making money from your passion
• Taking inspired action
• Living a joyous, abundant life

EVERYTHING!

Here’s how you harness the law…

When you catch yourself obsessing on what you don’t want here are the 6 steps you take:

1. Get excited

2. Tell yourself, “I am focussing on what I don’t want and if I didn’t know what I don’t want, I wouldn’t be able to recognize what I do want!”

3. IMMEDIATELY take a few minutes to focus on, picture, write down etc. EXACTLY what it is that you DO WANT. Get into it and especially tap into how having what you do want makes you feel.

4. Ask yourself ‘What one SMALL step can I take right now that will absolutely move me toward what I do want?’ (SMALL STEP!!)

5. TAKE THE STEP IMMEDIATELY!

6. Let it go and go on with your day.

Don’t be scared of what you don’t want…instead use it as a tool to get crystal clear on what you do want and start taking inspired action toward it.

This is important!! Go for it!

Go Big!

Kristen