When will you finally be ready?

I had an interesting conversation the other day…

I was talking with my best friend about a mutual friend of ours that is finally branching out with his own consulting business after years of running a consulting business for someone else…

As we were talking about this, my best friend said, “Do you think he’s ready?”

I thought about it for a second and this is what I said…

“I don’t think he’ll be ready until he’s doing it…”

We both laughed because it’s so true…

Think about it…

When are you ready? And I mean REALLY ready?

I’ll tell you when…

When you are doing it…

Don’t get me wrong…

You can (and must) prepare…

You can practice and get all of your ducks in a row (whatever that means)…

But you will finally be ready in the exact moment that you are doing it!

Here’s an example…

An athlete can train, hit practice hard and work all of their drills…

But when are they ready for the game?

During the game!

Here’s the deal…

So many people get stuck in the ‘Getting Ready’ phase and they never move onto the ready phase…

Be honest with me here…

What is it you are ‘getting ready for’ and have been ‘getting ready for’ for longer than a month?

Here are most of the things I hear that people are getting ready to be ready for…

• Losing weight
• Getting into shape
• Starting their own business
• Finding their passion
• Starting to design the life of their dreams
• Getting in the game
• Connecting with their kids
• Connecting with their spouse

and the list goes on and on and on…

So what is it for you?

It’s time to get in the game and START going big…

Enough getting ready!

Can’t wait for your comments on this one!

Go Big!

Kristen

How do I let go?

Here’s the question I get over and over and over again…

“How do I let go?”

I’m not gonna lie…

That’s the hardest part about the Law of Attraction.

I mean c’mon, I have you jumping through hoops deciding what you really want, visualizing it in GREAT detail, using all of your senses…

By the time you are done with the exercises I put you through you are probably so excited about the life you have decided to create that you can almost taste it…

And then I tell you to ‘Let go’!

What am I crazy?

I know it seems almost impossible…

BUT I need you to do it…

• When I say ‘Let go’ I don’t mean for you to let go of the vision (In fact I want you revisiting that daily for a few minutes)…
• When I say ‘Let go’ I don’t mean for you to let go of the passion and excitement…
• When I say ‘Let go’ I mean ‘Let go of HOW it is going to come to you!’

STOP trying to figure it out (seems nearly impossible doesn’t it?)

So let me be more specific…

Let go of the How!

Focus on the ultimate vision every day…

Use all your senses…

Get excited…

and then LET GO of HOW it’s going to happen!

Yes it’s hard…

BUT I guarantee you that YOU will only LIMIT yourself if you impose what you think can happen and bring you what you want.

Get out of the way…

Decide that what you desire or even something better is on it’s way (actually it’s already here, but that’s for another time) and then let it go…

Stop thinking about it…

Once you do your daily focus…STOP THINKING ABOUT IT!

How many times have you wanted something…

• Money
• Relationship
• Job
• ANYTHING

And you’ve obsessed on it…wondered how you were going to do it and then finally gave up…

And then almost immediately after that it shows up? And in a way you never expected?

Leave me a comment and tell me when this has happened to you…even if it was small, I guarantee it has happened!

Go Big!

Kristen

What You Do in the Last 4 Counts!

People tend to evaluate and re-evaluate their lives every year toward the end of the year so that they can head into the New Year ready to go!

I’m here to tell you that what you do in the last 4 months counts!

How are you setting yourself up now?  Don’t wait until Dec 31st to decide how you are going to do things differently…

Start now!

I’m telling you this…

About 5 years ago I stopped waiting and I actually started looking at the last 4 months of the year as a time of amazing opportunity…

The difference in my life is ASTOUNDING!!

Take the last couple of weeks of August to decide what you REALLY want!

• Do you want more money?
• Do you want to lose weight and get in the best shape of your life?
• Do you want to attract a wonderful, supportiv and passionate relationship?
• Do you want to grow your business?
• Do you want to start making money from your passion?

First ask yourself what it is you want?

Then ask yourself why you want it?

Then use the last 4 months to START NOW!

Imagine if you start now instead of waiting until Jan 1…

Imagine if you take the pressure off the New Year and start moving toward the life you want to design now?

Imagine if you are just that little bit ahead of the game…

1. What do you want?
2. Why do you want it?
3. What can you do RIGHT NOW to move 1step (just 1) toward what you want?

Imagine if you took 1 step a day, every day between today and Dec 31st, toward your goals…

• How much farther would you be?
• How different would your life be?
• How different would you be?

Just 1 step a day…

These last 4 count…let’s do it!

Leave me a comment to let me know what you want and why and if you are going to commit to taking 1 step a day starting NOW!

Go Big!

Kristen

The Important Law of Opposites

There is an important Law in the Law of Attraction and it is the Law of Opposites…

• Without darkness we wouldn’t be able to recognize light…
• Without sorrow we wouldn’t be able to recognize joy…
• Without lack we wouldn’t be able to recognize abundance…

I can hear you now, “WAIT Kristen, what are you saying…we need to have lack and sorrow and darkness?”

NO!

That isn’t what I’m saying at all…

BUT there is power in the Law of Opposites and once you learn how to harness this power you will magnetize everything you want and a much faster rate.

This is how you harness the Law of Opposites…

When you find yourself focusing on what you don’t want (which, if you are like most people happens more often than not)…

GET EXCITED!

WHAT…am I crazy??

Listen to me here…

If you know exactly what it is that you don’t want…

Get excited because that means you also know EXACTLY what it is that you DO WANT!

Now to fully harness the Law of Opposites, this is the key…

And this works for everything…

• Attracting money fast
• Finding your life purpose
• Making money from your passion
• Taking inspired action
• Living a joyous, abundant life

EVERYTHING!

Here’s how you harness the law…

When you catch yourself obsessing on what you don’t want here are the 6 steps you take:

1. Get excited

2. Tell yourself, “I am focussing on what I don’t want and if I didn’t know what I don’t want, I wouldn’t be able to recognize what I do want!”

3. IMMEDIATELY take a few minutes to focus on, picture, write down etc. EXACTLY what it is that you DO WANT. Get into it and especially tap into how having what you do want makes you feel.

4. Ask yourself ‘What one SMALL step can I take right now that will absolutely move me toward what I do want?’ (SMALL STEP!!)

5. TAKE THE STEP IMMEDIATELY!

6. Let it go and go on with your day.

Don’t be scared of what you don’t want…instead use it as a tool to get crystal clear on what you do want and start taking inspired action toward it.

This is important!! Go for it!

Go Big!

Kristen

Have You Fallen In?

I was watching a rerun of ‘West Wing’ the other day and once again shot out of my chair so I could make sure I wrote this today…

Quick recap of the episode…(if you don’t know the characters, no worries, you’ll still get this post.)

One of the characters (Josh) is struggling with a serious issue (PTSD after being shot) and one of the other characters (Leo) tells him this story…

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A guy walking down the street suddenly falls in an enormous hole.  He starts yelling for help to the people walking by.

A priest stops, writes a prayer down on a piece of pape, throws it into the hole and continues on his way.

The man keeps yelling…

A doctor stops, scribbles down a prescription, throws it into the hole and continues on his way.

The man keeps yelling…

The man’s best friend comes up to the hole and jumps in.

“Are you crazy?” The man crys, “Now we’re both stuck down here.”

His best friend responds, “Yeah, but I’ve been down here before and I know the way out.”

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I want you to know something…

If you are in a proverbial hole right now, it doesn’t matter if you are trying to attract money fast, find your purpose, make money from your passion or live a fulfilling and balanced life…

I am jumping in with you, because I’ve been there and I know the way out.

I’ve had overwhelming debt and failed businesses and wandered aimlessly through my life.  I’ve wrestled with my purpose and turned my back on my dreams and settled for mediocre…

I’ve been in that hole many times and I know how you feel because I felt the same way until I had some amazing people jump in the hole with me and show me the way out.

Now it’s time for me to help you, let me show you the way out and promise me that once you know, you will do the same for someone else…

It’s time for you and it doesn’t matter what your reality seems to be right now…

Everything can change…

Let’s do this together!

Leave me a comment, tell me how you are struggling right now, let me show you the way out one step at a time.

Go Big!

Kristen